Thanksgiving Vacation

We're back! We've been back for almost a week now, but I still don't feel readjusted to "normal" life yet. We had a great time out east and I wish it didn't have to end. It's always nice coming home, especially when James was back home for 11 days before we were, but it's so nice being with family and back where the world seems a little more alive.

We ventured to Maryland for Thanksgiving with James' family. Half of the family stayed in two RV's in the driveway while the other half stayed in the house. The showers and bathrooms were always occupied, mealtimes were a little crazy and our caravan systems were always delayed (mostly, okay, totally because of me. I choose to blame the babe, but I was almost always the last to shower, so it's more my fault than Makai's. Sorry!).

We spent time in DC where I saw the White House for the first time. I have to say, it looks bigger and more magical in pictures. We also got pedicures, manicures, went shopping with the girlies and put on a cute talent show. The boys were able to go to the Navy football game. We also went to the Air and Space Museum, Port Discovery x2, DC Temple visitors center, The museum of Natural History and American History and I'm sure I'm forgetting something. Needless to say, everyday we had an adventure and it was great. We also had time to talk, make cookies, and watch the only family video of James and his sisters when they were younger. Oh and I can't forget the wonderful Thanksgiving meal we had thanks to my mother-in-law! It was sooo yummy! Ezra loved playing with his cousins. We came upstairs one morning and he heard someone and gasped, "cousins!!!" It was so cute. He still prays for ALL of them. All we have to say is "we're thankful for.." and he just fills in all their names.

Then Thanksgiving Day we said goodbye to everyone, James got on one plane back home and the boys and I got on another to go see my family. Within half an hour of James being home he was called into work where he walked the floors all Black Friday morning.

The boys were great for me on the plane. It was a little crazier on the way home due to a much longer flight plus a layover and double the amount of luggage I came out with, but the boys were still way more behaved than I expected, so no tears!

In New Hampshire we had fun shopping, shopping, and shopping. We had Thanksgiving dinner with my aunt and uncle and cousins, met Santa and rode on his train, got a house visit from Santa (aka Grandpa), and went horseback riding and Ezra and I fell off the horse. I'm still sore, Ezra landed on me so he's fine. He still talks about how he got to feed the horse, walk it, brush it and say, "whoa horsey", not once has he ever mentioned falling off, so I'm not reminding him.

We also played with more of Ezra's cousins and I found myself relaxing more than I have since I've had kids. I hardly prepared any meals for Ezra (my mom and sister-in-law, Jamie, took care of it)! I sent Ezra down with Nana each morning while mommy and baby relaxed or, some mornings, slept in. I had my first Black Friday early bird adventure and it was a little lame. My fault though. I went with nothing particular in mind. I just wanted to "look" around. Well, you can't really "look" at anything in the crowds, so I mostly stood to the side until I saw an open aisle to move through. Still fun though and not nearly as horrible as everyone made it sound. I got to see many old friends and it was great. My neice, Lily, just loved Makai. She would say all day long, "baby, oh, it's a baby!" It was so funny. Ezra spent most of his time downstairs playing with Tyler's toys. I didn't get hardly any pictures, but what else is new...

Like I said, we're happy to be back and so so happy to be with daddy again, but Rexburg is just a little more depressing to me right now. I was quickly reminded how empty it feels, how there is nothing to do, how the stores in Idaho don't have hardly anything worth purchasing, how cold it is, how people don't know how to use 4-way stops out here, how lonely we are with our friends dwindling away and no family close by. Que sera sera. Tis the season to be jolly, so forget what I just said :)

Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving. Christmas is right around the corner and I just can't believe it! We've got presents under our tree that James has to keep scolding me for trying to peek in. And even more presents in our closet that we have to keep Ezra's hand off! Can't wait for Santa to come this year!

Halloween and Makai's Baby Blessing

We kind of overdid ourselves this year for Halloween, but it was so hard not to since Ezra was so excited for it all. The Thursday before Halloween we went to "Boo at the Zoo." My friend Kami and her two boys invited us to go with them. They had several businesses around for trick or treating and most of the animals were still out so we had a lot of fun strolling along. It was a little too crowded for my liking, but it was still lots of fun. Though I will say, Ezra got in free and I had to pay for myself and they didn't even give me candy! I asked one girl for one piece and she gave me a funny look so I asked again and she handed it to me and didn't say anything. Excuse me? I'm the one who paid! Silly, I know, but everyone else was getting candy.
Then on Friday we went trick-or-treating at a local business, Melaleuca. They had it decorated really fun for the kids and it was indoors!

Then on Saturday we had Ezra's Halloween party. As usual, I forgot my camera. My friend, Cristina, and I made some pinatas, but they sort of fell apart before they were destroyed by the kids. Thankfully they were two year olds so it didn't really matter to them. We played pin the spider on the web with spiders that we all made, dig for the worms (the worms were buried in whip cream, though the kids weren't too into this one, Kami and I had fun for them). We also played find the ghost, musical plates and of course hit the pinata. It was fun and I am so greatful for the friends that came, but about half the people we invited didn't make it so the games went fast and we had lots of extra food, candy and goodie cups. I have learned my lesson to about spending too much on parties unless you know how many people are coming.
Later that night we went trick-or-treating at another local business, Fat Cats. Then we followed our friends to their wards trunk-or-treat. We got lots and lots of candy.

Ezra ended up being a lion. The day I went to put his lion costume on him he told me he wanted to be a hamburger which I had returned the day before. Oh silly boy. Now he keeps asking me if he can wear his, "lion coshtuume."

                                  

Makai was a bear. the girly scarf has nothing to do with his coshtuume. I find that babies in car seats usually get piled underneath things often. Well, at least my baby does. I always put my wallet and phone on him when we go to the store. Poor Kai.

Ezra hated wearing the lion head because he had a hard time seeing. He kept sneaking lollipops throughout the night and I just couldn't take them away from him. I mean, just look at how happy he is. I still find him climbing on the counter to open yet another lolli.

Makai's Blessing

11/7/10

So he was almost 3 months old when he was blessed. It just worked out that way, we weren't waiting intentionally. Although blessing him so late allowed my mother-in-law to be able to make the journey out here for it, so it was well worth the wait. Two of James' sisters and their families were able to make it too.

James was nervous about the blessing, but it was beautiful. My brother-in-law, Alex, said Makai was smiling up at them during the blessing. So sweet!

"Gammalene" (as Ezra calls her) got Ezra a new suit for church so naturally the second we got home I got him out of it so it wouldn't get messy. Sorry I don't have any pictures of my studly toddler in his suit. I'll get some.

Look at that face! Makai is now 3 months old and so smiley! People tell me often what a smiley baby he is and I agree. This picture doesn't show that. He has the biggest dimples and the cutest coos when he smiles. He's been "talking"  to me a lot more and I just love it. He's my little munchkin. Not sleeping well still, but I am slowly learning to fight through it during the day.

We're heading to Maryland this Wednesday for a family reunion and we're so excited. James has to be back for work on Black Friday so he'll be flying back Thanksgiving day. As for me and the boys, we're venturing out to New Hampshire to spend some time with my family. Wish me luck with two youngsters by myself!

Halloween Fun & Cute Boys

We were trying to decide on a Halloween costume for Ezra and this was his first choice:

 It was ruled out when he decided he didn't want to wear it for more than 2 minutes. I bought him a hamburger costume and was going to get a hotdog one for Makai, but after I was feeling guilty for spending money on a silly costume I asked Ezra if he even wanted to be a hamburger and he said no. He told me he wants to be a lion which is perfect because that was his costume last year and it still fits. I decided to let the 2 year old decide...

Ezra has been getting really excited about having a Halloween party. He talks about it all the time. However, I still don't have a place to have it, so we might be crammed in my little apartment last minute :( I've been trying to get Ezra excited about other things related to Halloween like fun crafts! We traced his hands for the spiders and his feet for the ghosts and he had a blast!

I caught Ezra putting these suction cups in very suspicious areas of his body during his bath the other night. I tried to get him to put them back for a picture, but he kind of missed here. Close enough... you get the idea. Who knows where he learned this.

And here's my little Makai. My love. He just has the sweetest smile. It makes me feel so happy when he looks at me and squeals with delight. I am finally getting the hang of having a newborn again and I'm even getting the hang of having a newborn and a toddler at home. I'm feeling so much better and way more confident each day. I still have moments, but I am happy. Ezra loves Makai more and more and he's really learning to be a good brother. He tries to teach him songs and he always asks him questions like, "what color?" or "what letter?" He still thinks he's cute and that makes life so much easier for me.

The End.

The Boys

Ezra just loves his brother. He is always getting in his face saying, "hi baby!" over and over again. He also calls him "so cute" and "schweet" all the time. He gets excited when I ask him if he wants to hold him. He's still trying to play with him, so I never ever leave the two of them alone in the same room- any more. Unfortunately I had to learn the hard way. So far Makai has been sat on, stepped on, driven on, and folded into our travel swing-DANGER DANGER! I have cried with him almost every time and then repented for scolding Ezra for something he didn't realize was bad. He just wants to play with him.

Makai looks a lot like my dad in this picture. So far he isn't sleeping more than 3-4 hours at night, but he's been a lot better about falling back asleep after he eats instead of staying awake for awhile, so I'm not complaining near as much as I was :)

He has started smiling, but I have yet to catch a picture of it. He's so sweet. He is still a high maintenance baby, but not nearly as fussy as he was. I am starting to get the hang of being a new mommy again and things are getting a lot smoother. Thankfully my wonderful husband still wakes up with Ezra every morning and lets me sleep in. He says I'm a lot happier when he does that and I keep telling him I'll be even happier if he vows to change all the poopy diapers from now on...

 We got a new fridge! It was exciting until it came and we realized I ordered the wrong size. Oops. James had to borrow a sander and jigsaw from our friends so he could cut the cabinets to make it fit. It actually turned out great. James is quite proud of his "professional-looking" job and I am too. Then we had to change the hinges on the doors to open the other way. We were told it was "super easy". Maybe we should've mentioned we are not handy people... It became quite the little task, so Ezra swooped in to help and we got it all sorted out. Now we have a bigger and better fridge and I love it!

We've been getting out of the house every day now and Ezra seems a lot happier. Now we are working on planning Ezra's Halloween party and I am trying to decide what we should all be for Halloween. Any ideas? I'd love to coordinate our costumes. However, I have a feeling that we won't end up dressing up at all :(

A Good Wife

We have been married for 3 years as of August 31st. Being a good wife has become more of a challenge the longer we're married. I believe the reason is that now I have more and more responsibility with two kids and the fact that I am now a stay-at-home mom and don't have the excuse of homework and school for my messy house and lack of dinner on the table. I often complain to James about how hard it is to be a mom and a wife. Even though I love love love my "job" I still think it is just too much for one woman to have to handle all on her own. How do single moms do it? How did my mother-in-law do it? Well, I beg for the help of my husband often and when I'm not begging, I find myself in tears wondering why he isn't just stepping up to help me. He sometimes says, "Well, I've been at work all day and I just need to unwind..." Well, the other day I complained about how he is able to escape from the stress at home when he goes to work. He turned to me and said, "You act as if I am at the spa all day."

Through my husband's wit I learned a very important lesson. Yes, my husband should be helping me around the house and with the kids. Yes, it is hard work and I believe a woman should be praised by her husband often for what she does in the home. However, husbands have a hard job too. Who knew? I want so badly to be a good wife that I find myself stressing about all the things I think a good wife should be doing and that turns me into a nasty, selfish sort of wife. So, later that night I actually felt sympathy for my husband when he complained about his feet being sore from walking ALL day every day. I gave him a foot massage and instantly felt the love and desire he had to help me with what I needed from him. Funny, isn't that what we have been taught in this gospel all along?

We all probably have different definitions of what "a good wife" is and does, but one thing that I have learned is that my desire should not be to be "a good wife". My desire should be to love and serve my husband. If that makes me a good wife then I'll take the title, if it doesn't, then I'll still have a happy husband. I'm going to try. Ask me how well I do when I've spent all day listening to both kids scream... Well, it's worth the effort.

I just wondered how many other husbands and wives go through the same sort of "my job is harder than yours" debate... forget about it and just kiss each other. The End.

A Quick Update

Ezra went on his first real "amusement park" ride when the fair came to town. It was a lot faster than those quarter machine rides go, so he was a little scared, but as soon as his eyes were able to spot the blur he calls mommy and daddy, he was happy again.

Makai is getting so big. This was actually taken when he was only a week old and look how huge he looks! He's already in size 1 diapers (and has been since he was a week old) and he is now wearing 3 month clothes. Ezra was in newborn clothes for almost 3 months. Where did the newborn stage go? I would never wish this time away. The only thing I can't wait to be over is the broken sleep. I just wish he would start sleeping more than 2 hours at a time. But, I love him no matter how sleep drunk he makes me.

James was a little embarrassed that his tough little boy chose the pink and purple horse.

Ezra asks me to take him to the park just about every day. Before Makai came we were going to the park every day, but obviously having a baby makes that more difficult. Poor little Ezra is getting cooped up all day long and I think it is making him slightly crazy now too. He has resorted to jumping on the couch, his bed and mommy, using the back of the tub as a slide and swinging from daddy's pull up bar. He loves when his friends come to play. His new buddy Kaden has helped keep him busy and happy a couple times since Makai came and we all appreciate it! (Thanks Jennie!)

Here is Ezra all dressed up for church. There have been several times in the past couple of weeks when Ezra has brought me his shoes and told me he was going to church. I am so glad he loves church so much. He finally loves nursery and cries almost every time I come get him to go home.

We're all doing great here. James is working all the time and I am still trying to get the hang of two kids, but we're managing. Hope everyone is doing well.

(P.S. HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD! WE LOVE YOU!!)

Ezra Has a Girlfriend

Ezra has developed a very passionate interest in the old navy mannequins. Especially the little girl his size. EVERY time we go into that store he will lift up her shirt or her dress to find her belly button. Well, this time, without any encouragment from us, he decided to give her a kiss.

I was a little grossed out by this, but I thought it was too cute and too funny to stop him.

 What is a mother to do when it starts this young?

I had to add these pictures because I just think my little man is such a stud:

So how is studly little Ezra adjusting to his new baby brother?

Mostly very well, but he is a jealous little one and is starting to become a little possessive over his mommy. He loves Makai and continues to hold him and kiss him and say, "aww baby" while rubbing his head or his tummy.

However, he doesn't enjoy me nursing because I can't just put Makai down to hold him and every time I change Makai's diaper Ezra asks me to change his. (Speaking of diapers, Ezra likes to look at Makai's poopy diapers, but it makes him literally gag and almost dry heave. Then he runs away saying, "gross." It is so funny!!) I am trying my best to keep my arms open for Ezra when I can and include him in taking care of Makai and helping me. He does love his baby brother though, he's always looking for him when he's sleeping and still excited to share his toys when he cries. I'll keep you posted on the jealousy issue.

Makai Neil Tressler

Makai was born August 14th, 2010 at 11:55am. He was 9lbs 1 oz. 19 inches (although today he measured 20.3 inches at the doctors). It was a scary and fast delivery. The super long story is below if you wish to read:

I woke up at 8 or so that morning and my contractions started soon after that. I decided to get in the tub for a little because I thought I still had plenty of time to get ready to go. It helped, but the contractions were very painful very quickly and my shower after the bath was extremely hard to get through. James had gone into work for a little bit (I told him to because like I said, I thought I had plenty of time). Though right before he left he looked at me and started to cry. He was sad to see me in pain and excited Makai was on his way.

When I got out of the shower I told my mom to call the doctor so I could be checked without having to go to the hospital. We made an appt. for 10:30 and I called my midwife to let her know I was in labor. After limping around the house to pack my bag and crying every step of the way I started freaking a little. I turned on some music to distract me while I paced. Ezra thought I was dancing, so he joined in and twirled around for awhile. At 10:15 I told my mom we were skipping the doctors and going straight to the hospital and I had her call James to rush home. He got here right as we got in the car and we drove up. (I did yell at a car parked behind ours talking to our neighbor who wouldn't get out of the way fast enough. It actually felt really good.) We got to the hospital and I told the nurse that she had better not tell me I was still at a 3. She laughed a little and said, "you're a good 6 or more." They then took me to my room.

My midwife met me there and it really helped having her there. She had me stand over the bed for contractions and had James push hard on my lower back. I didn't think it was helping until I tried to get back in bed and realized it felt so much worse to lay down. It didn't take long to get to a ten. She was going to have me push standing, but Makai's heartrate dropped drastically and she couldn't get a good read. That's when she started panicking like you never want your doctor to do and she had me hurry on the bed. She stuck a needle thing in Makai's head to get a better read and immediately called the doctor to come in. His heartrate should've been at least 110 or higher, but it was 60. The nurses began prepping me for an emergency C-section. They shoved the IV in my arm and threw an oxygen mask on my face. They didn't even turn the oxygen on until I told them I felt like I was suffocating and then they realized. DUH! The doctor came within minutes and told me he wanted me to try pushing before we rushed to do a C-section, so I pushed like I never thought I could. There were many nurses in the room yelling at me to push harder and that honestly just made me mad. Of course I'm pushing as hard as I can. They were pulling at me like you wouldn't believe trying to hurry and get this kid out. Well, within less than a minute of pushing and screaming Makai was handed to me and he began to cry. My tears started to flow as I held him. They didn't leave him on me very long before they rushed him to the table to make sure all was well.

He thankfully was doing well. He was very badly bruised from being pushed out so quickly, but other than that he was good. He had chub all over and I just loved it. That chub has thinned out quite a bit already, so I guess he was just swollen, but certainly bigger than Ezra was. After a couple of hours they finally let me shower. I came out to find the nurse pumping my new baby with oxygen. Apparently he had spit up and then stopped breathing while she was bathing him. We had to watch him closely for awhile after that.

(Ezra got to help with his first bath)

It was scary getting him here and then a little scary when he was finally here, but now he's doing great. I of course cried later that night when Nana took Ezra home. I have never been away from him overnight.

Ezra actually really loves him and is adjusting well so far. I'm having a much harder recovery than with Ezra, but they said that's normal. I'm remembering the pain of nursing and the joy of being up all night long, but I really couldn't be happier to have him here. Thank goodness for Nana who is here to wake up with Ezra and help me with meals and anything else!

(He still wasn't so sure what to think- this is before he helped with his bath. That's what seemed to start the change of heart.)

(It was a long day, but way worth it!)

For more pics and story check out my mommy blog.

Still Pregnant

In case you were planning on asking, I'm still pregnant.

I'm almost refusing to take pictures at this point... I feel huge, the midwives and James tell me I'm huge and I now have many stretch marks proving that I am huge :( I had Ezra a week early, so I already feel overdue now. I'm due the 13th. Two weeks ago they checked to see if I was dilated and I was at a 3. Well, that doesn't mean anything because I'm still hugely pregnant.

Today would've been a cool birthday (8-9-10), but I don't see that happening now. Oh well. I wouldn't be in such a hurry to get him here if it weren't for the constant braxton hicks and my tired tired body.

I will try to update as soon as he's here, but for now, yes, I am still pregnant.

The Best Two Years

Here's the promised update on little Ez:

In my only slightly biased opinion Ezra is the best kid there ever was! He brings us so much joy. Every day he makes me smile and I love him more than I ever thought I could. I'm sure I am like every other mother who thinks that every little thing her child does is the funniest thing. I still make James come in to watch him with me while he sleeps and I am always telling him every little thing Ezra said that day that made me laugh.

(here James is stretching and squishing his face in ways that look painful, but Ezra couldn't stop laughing!)

Here's what he's been up to lately:

-He talks all the time and just started putting more than 3 words together.

-He still loves signing and has learned many new signs recently.

-He loves watching signing time.

-He has become obsessed with thomas the train and got his first train track for his birthday. He now wants to play with it for hours at a time.

-He is very active and has to run or jump everywhere he goes.

-People are commenting all the time on how much of a boy he is. He just loves guns, dinosaurs, monsters, cars, trains, rough play, swords, etc.

-He is still very tender hearted and sensitive and I think it's sweet.

-He has a great memory. He will point to a picture of his cousins and say their names when he hasn't seen them in weeks or months. I am just amazed all the time at the things he remembers and points out to me.

-His milk allergy is no longer a problem. He still has an allergy- I notice hives every now and then, but I think his body has built up a tolerance to it and he can finally have straight up cow's milk.

-He wants to know everything and is constantly asking, "what was that?"

-He is really getting the hang of his colors and shapes and can recognize maybe a 1/4 of his ABC's.

-He still loves dancing. He can shake his tail feather and pop-lock like no toddler I have ever seen before.

-He loves the itouch. It's a little embarrassing to me how well he can work it.

-He still gives kisses and hugs all the time. He kisses my tummy lots too.
-He comes up to me when he's tired and says "nuggles" and then he'll say, "yuv you mama" -melts my heart.

-He has finally gotten used to nursery and doesn't put up a fight any more. In fact, most of the time he gets excited when the closing prayer is said in sacrament meeting. He'll almost always shout, "Yay nursree!"

-As for sleeping in his big boy bed... he does great for nap time. Lately he has been getting into bed for his nap before I even say it's time. However, bed time is still a struggle and sleeping through the night is an off and on occurence. Maybe he's just training me for when his brother comes along.

Some of the things he has said or done lately that made me laugh are:

-We got in the car one day and his seat was really hot. He screamed, "hot, hot" and then turned around to blow on it and said, "better."

-During the 4th of July parade we witnessed several horses pooping right in front of us. Now everytime Ezra sees a horse he says, "horsey, poop!" He then follows with "poop potty" It makes me laugh every time.

-He is very polite and almost always says excuse me when he wants to get by someone. The other day he was playing with the trains in Barnes and Noble and he said "skew me" to a little boy who didn't say anything back so Ezra said it again. When the boy didn't say anything back Ezra looked at me and nodded his head and said, "skewzed"
-Last night he pooped in the tub and started screaming bloody murder. He cried even harder when I started draining the tub and the pooped started swimming closer and closer to him. James couldn't help but laugh. I think I would've laughed more if I wasn't the one who had to clean the poop out of the tub.

-I taught him the chubby face/story and now he is always grabbing my cheeks or his own saying "chubby".

-EVERY time we get in the car he asks for the bus song. The second it's over he shouts, "MORE PEAS!" I have found myself singing these songs in the middle of the night and it drives me crazy!

-He started giving me back massages and he loves to play with my hair, though he has realized he gets a bigger reaction out of me when he pulls my hair, so he starts off really nice and then yanks it to hear me yell. He then follows with "sorry pull hair" and starts all over. I am a little too trusting...

(This is at his 2nd birthday party. I was trying to tell him to throw the balloon at daddy, but he wasn't so sure.- photo courtesy of Cristina Sorensen since I didn't get any pics)

Okay just about everything he does I think is so adorable and hilarious. These really have been the best two years so far and I am looking forward to many more!